If we think about what everyone tells us about how to hook in a man they all say the same thing: play hard to get. However, that’s too vague and how do you play hard to get over text? How long do you have to wait before you text him? What emojis should I use? There are just too many details. Well raise your weary head, and get a pen and some paper, cause that’s gonna be a thing of the past. Read on, read on.
- NEVER, Ever Text Him First.
This only counts for the first month of talking, you want to make it seem that you have many options and have no need to reach out first. I know what you’re thinking, “I want him to know that I like him!”, and trust me he does, you gave him your number! The real question is does he like you! So by letting him text you first, it’s a constant reminder that he likes you enough to keep texting you. Also wait at least 5 mins before responding to each text.
- Make the Conversations Short Over Text
Have an amazing conversation with him. Make him laugh, be witty and be yourself! Just don’t make it last all day, you’re busy, and even if you aren’t, you want him to think that you are. So always end the conversation first, say things like “I’m going out to eat with my girlfriends, gonna start getting ready, talk to you later.” This makes you look like he isn’t your everything, and he’s going to have to put in some effort to get the privilege of talking to you all day. This also sets you up for my next tip.
- Use Texting to Get Him to Ask You on a Date
In my previous tip, you are not talking to him all day and you aren’t always available. Men love a challenge and solving things, so the fact that he can’t figure you out drives him crazy! So he’s going to want to set up a date to either chase you harder or try to solve the mystery. Only accept dates that are a few days in advance, if he says “Let’s meet up tomorrow!” you say “ I would love to, but I already made plans. Let’s do Thursday!” Now you have a date, and now he has time to build up his excitement to see you. Like they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder!
- Use Flirty Emojis to Create Sexual Tension
Use them SPARRINGLY, no one wants an emoji filled text each time. Your texting conversations won’t be long so you want to make them unforgettable! Flirt with the wink, purple devil, and smirk to portray what you are thinking without words! Also you can use a funny gif in your conversations too, this lets him know you have a great sense of humor!
There you go! You now have the 4 parts to my texting technique that makes guys go crazy! Not being able to figure you out will make him obsessed, and then he’ll think to him self “Wow I think about her a lot, I really like her.” You have just officially weaseled yourself into his thoughts without him even knowing it. If you have any awesome tips with texting guys or any testimonials from using the above tips, please comment below.